My comment:
(a) The quote will infuriates many Chinese men, who jealously guard
Chinese women.
(b) 黛博拉费罗斯 Deborah Fallows
http://www.deborahfallows.com/
Her book:
Deborah Fallows, Dreaming in Chinese: Mandarin Lessons In Life, Love, And
Language. Walker & Company (August 31, 2010)
http://www.walkerbooks.com/books/catalog.php?key=870
Perhaps because she is on leave from Georgetown University, or just arrives,
few information can be found in the web site of the university.
(c) 詹姆士费罗斯 James Fallows
http://www.theatlantic.com/james-fallows